"Living like yourself" means grabbing and using it.Less stress, you can live a convincing way of life.
There are many options in the present era, such as career and working style.Therefore, unless you have a criterion that suits you, you will always be worried about "Is this okay?"It is important to know what you want to cherish in your life and your own taste in order to have a judgment axis to live like yourself.You will not be swayed by the public and others' opinions.
There are five main benefits to living like yourself.
When working on the same thing, the degree of stress is different between the case where there is a feeling of being "done" or not.If you want to do the same difficulties, you can take it positively and focus on overcoming difficulties.On the other hand, "what is being done" only makes you complain and dissatisfied.
If you face your own core, "what kind of thing you feel happy" will be clear and your life will be clear.It doesn't have to be the same as around.There is no blur in your judgment and choice.
People who are blaming the surroundings and the environment, such as "I just haven't been serious yet" and "if I get the environment and money ...", will not change forever.If you know yourself and take advantage of yourself, you can play the same way even if your environment or work changes.
People are interested in those who have the same matter, but those who are most attracted are those who have the same criterion.Have you ever had a "feeling that you've been connected for a long time" even if you met for the first time?
Self -affirmation is a translation of psychology's "self -esteem", and in an easy -to -understand manner, it feels like "I like myself."If you read the air on the spot and keep it with the other person, you will hate yourself and become an excuse life.Living in your life will increase your self -affirmation and make your life fun and rich.
"Living like yourself" is to judge based on the value criteria you care about.By accumulating your own judgment, you will be confident in yourself.And even if you are criticized by others, you can get a supple mental that can be calmly parry without emotionally opposing.
Living like yourself is not to pass through your ego or selfishness.It will be established only when the surroundings are approved.Specifically, it is a way of life that "the personality", including good and bad, is correctly transmitted to the surroundings, and the necessary support and opportunities come around.
It is not to be a saint Kimiko.This is a way of life with "the consistency of that personality".Living in a true character.Anyone can do this.
People who live like themselves are wonderful from the side.What are the specific features?
Let's have a consistent criterion.People who live like themselves have their own criteria.
Recognize all your strengths and weaknesses.When the wall stands in front of you, always think about how to cross the wall and ask for help if necessary.It is also important to have the courage to withdraw.
Having an opinion in accordance with your criteria, you can do the best to fulfill your purpose without getting around the air around you.However, I am responsible for my actions.
I'm jealous of others and don't think about it.It is divisible that others are different from others.Do not look at the opponent above or below, and do not give advantage in competition.Everyone is not perfect and is "in the middle of growth", so we can focus on the good points of the other person and respect the other person.
Both work and private life are the same, so both public and private are fulfilling.With the idea of dividing work and private, you can't get a true way of life.
If you can only choose one when there are two things that seem to be correct, focus on the answer you choose.We know how to enjoy now so that no choice does not remain.
So what should I do to live like myself?I will explain four specifically.
It is starting to know the "qualities", which is the basis of your own.There are various theories, but it is said in psychology that "the qualities are half by birth, and the rest is mostly determined by the early 20s."
Fitting the qualities is relatively easy to improve your skills and produce results.By knowing your qualities, you can find your own core without being confused by the world or information.
The specific way to find the qualities is to analyze what parts were good when people were grateful.This appreciation will lead to your "value".
Each qualities are trivial and okay.For example, "accuracy" for one person in office work, "care" for others.Suppose that another person praised "speed".Even if each one is a casual element, if you put it together, it will lead to your own characteristics.
Once you know the combination of qualities, choose an environment (industry, company, job type) where you can make use of its characteristic.You can live on your own for the first time in a place that meets the criteria for life.
In the workplace, it is better to demonstrate the qualities that people around you do not have.If the workplace is a group with high quality "accuracy", if you demonstrate the qualities of "speed", you can use your own abilities.Let's improve ourselves while expanding the qualities according to the situation.
If you say, "It's natural that each person is different," the stress of relationships and communication will be drastically reduced.If the most stressful human relationships and communication problems are drastically reduced, you can afford to live yourself.
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You need sharpness to live yourself.If you know what you should not do, you can correct your words, attitudes and actions.
Understand what you don't do and live like yourself.
The best thing to stop to live your life is "comparison with others".People unconsciously compare themselves with others.And you will be depressed by your own dumb, or you will be aggressive.
If you absolutely compare it, compare it with yourself, not others.Compared to the past "negative condition", such as "I have grown so much from three years ago," it is now clear that it is "positive", so you can afford it.
It is not a good idea to set up a wavy with people around you more than necessary, but if you act only with the opinions of the surroundings to avoid collisions, you will disappear.Don't leave your life with people around you.
People have more or less complexes.People have grown with their superiority in comparison and evaluating others since childhood.Complex is a negative feeling for yourself, but from a different perspective is "personality".Replace it in a good way, get over the complex and switch to your own character.
When the purpose of life becomes money, money is swung around.If you look at the top, there is no drill and you fall into an infinite loop.Making money is "the other person is pleased and the price is the quantity."If you live like yourself, you will not be caught by money and enrich your life.
It is a mind defense instinct to make an excuse.It is necessary to avoid damaging your mental, but if you cannot use it well, it will be negative.No matter how correct you are, you can only hear the other person as an "excuse".Your reputation, trust, and evaluation will be reduced and you will not be able to leave what you want to do.Let's judge it as a "reason" instead of an "excuse".Instead of interpretation, it will be conveyed as "facts" and will be conveyed as a set as to "how to solve it".If you switch the issue in the resolution direction, you can catch it positively.
If you live like yourself, you will be determined.The decision that you judge on your own is consistent and will be the brand of your "religion".No matter how difficult it is, open up the future according to your criteria.It is meaningless to postpone living like yourself.Let's start now.
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So far, we have explained what to live like yourself.On the other hand, some people may think, "Only some people can live on their own" or "it is difficult for office workers to live like themselves."However, there are many people who are living in themselves.
山来 雅弘さんTDK株式会社 品質保証部（2000年入社）
Mr. Yamagata belongs to the quality assurance department in TDK and is working as an engineer.On the other hand, he said he loved weather for a long time.The pass rate is 4 for the weather forecaster exam.It is a 0%ultra -difficult national exam, and it is not something that can be passed with a half -hearted feeling.Mr. Yamagata once failed, but he did 5 hours of study every day without giving up and tried again.I won the pass in the second exam.Currently, he is a TDK employee, but also belongs to the Chiba Branch of the Japan Weather Meteorological Association and is also working on weather forecasts.
In addition, Mr. Yamagata is interested in drones due to the "sky" connection, and is working on what he wants to do vigorously, such as owning seven drones and posting more than 100 videos to shared sites.
佐野 篤史さんTDK株式会社 エナジーデバイスビジネスグループ日本オペレーション（2000年入社）
After joining TDK, Mr. Sano was addicted to the battery in the battery -related department assigned.He wanted to learn more about batteries and entered a doctoral program.For the next three years, he lived a life of his two -legged straw, a member of society and a student.
Furthermore, while working in TDK, he continued his research on batteries, and this time he entered a master's degree of working adults.He again gained his career as a member of society and student.At that time, Mr. Sano was in a responsible position, such as having a subordinate at the company.Mr. Sano, who is a company employee or manager, who has done what he wants to do, embodies the person who lives like himself.
＊＊＊自分らしい働き方を実践する社員が数多く所属するTDK。同社は日本が世界に誇る4大イノベーション（フェライト素材・磁気テープ・積層部品・磁気ヘッド）を確立した総合電子部品メーカーです。TDKの高い技術力は、スマートフォンやパソコン、自動車、鉄道など、あらゆる製品やインフラに使用されており、私たちの「当たり前の生活」を見えないところから支えています。
Developed over 250 bases in more than 30 countries and regions.Approximately 90%of the employees are enrolled outside of Japan, and the company has a high ratio of employees and the foreigners of the executives, and has realized a variety of organizations.
TDK has established various systems to support the success of a variety of employees.There is an environment for employees to live themselves, such as childbirth and childcare support systems, nursing care leave, work from home, flex and superflex, re -employment system, choice of work style associated with spouse transfer.If you want to live in your own way and work, why not check it out once?
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まつもととしあきBorn December 12, 1970, from Chiba Prefecture. He is a personnel and strategic consultant. HR Strategy Representative. HR General Researcher Researcher. He has been in his current position as a principal (manager), a major foreign -affiliated consulting company such as PWC, Mercer, and Accenture. He has been engaged in more than 600 human resources reforms, from large companies that represent the world and Japan to startup companies. He is a "connoisseur of a person", who has selected and trained more than 7,000 restructuring and more than 7,000 leaders. In recent years, in addition to consulting for companies, we have taught business people from students, working mother, young to veteran, how to assemble their careers in order to get closer to the world where everyone is active. 。 He provides more than 5,000 individual advice as a life work and is well received. "The 30s who can do this" (PHP Laboratory), "Easy and fast is the most amazing" (Diamond), "Habits for those who can earn money" (Nihon Keizai Shimbun Publishing ) He has authored many books, such as "Make" always change jobs as a weapon "(KADOKAWA) and" Head to organize heads in 5 seconds "(Hoshishimasha).
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